Parents are the first teachers of their children. But as kids grow, parents need to entrust their kids to school teachers who are responsible for providing knowledge and developing the basic skills of children. Teachers are, therefore, recognized as second parents. And for this reason, parents and teachers need to establish a positive relationship as partners in education.
Experts have pointed out that a positive relationship between a parent and teacher is more likely to lead to the success of a child in school. When a school kid sees that his mom or dad get along well with the teacher, he or she is bound to feel good and inspired to do good in school.
But this is not always the case because of the challenges that may come along. There are times you may not like your child’s teacher or your child does not like his or her teacher. Or there may also be times when you don’t agree with the disciplinary actions carried out by the teacher towards your kid. Read more…
Posted on January 19, 2015 at by Teresa Te
At the beginning of a new year, many people make resolutions or goals that they want to meet or achieve as time progresses. These resolutions may be to stop a bad habit or to start a good habit, such as stopping smoking or starting to volunteer more. For parents, making resolutions can be a little more challenging because caring for children requires much time and energy. These top five parenting trends for 2015 are making the new year’s resolutions list for many moms and dads.
According to a blog by Elizabeth Broadbent on the Huffington Post, one of the leading parenting trends and resolutions for 2015 is to offer more praise. However, rather than just saying “Good job,” you should be more specific in your praise, such as recognizing the effort a child put into a school project or the sportsmanship he or she displayed at a game. Read more…
Posted on January 16, 2015 at by Teresa Te
Divorce is always painful and even traumatic not only for the spouses but most especially for their kids. Any child would find it hard to understand why his or her parents have to go their separate ways.
Deciding on ending a marriage when children are involved can really be difficult. Holli Palmer, a Family attorney, says you need to consult an expert to make sure that you are making the right decision and that the children do not suffer from the process.
To make things easier for the little ones and growing kids, every parent has to carry the responsibility of telling the truth according to their level of maturity. Yes the truth hurts but it will hurt your kids more if they knew about your real situation at a much later time. You can always help them cope by reassuring them of your love and support and constantly communicating with them. Always put them on top of your priorities as they need your affection and attention during a difficult time. Read more…
Posted on December 24, 2014 at by Teresa Te
As a parent it is normal to want the best for your kids. You work hard and try to give them the finest that life has to offer. When it comes to ensuring the security of their financial future, it is easy for a parent to be left wondering what approach to take. You already contribute to your child’s Roth IRA, building small pockets of wealth for their future when possible. You have even started looking into creating extra passive income with rental properties or flipping distressed properties.
Investing and padding the nest egg for your child’s future is certainly a nice gesture. It is unfortunate that none of these actions will ensure that their financial state will continue to remain solid long after you are gone. On the contrary, doing all this work for your child may have the opposite effect. Children who have everything handed to them in life tend to not understand how to do things for themselves. This is why it is important to educate your kids in the intricacies of how to earn and save money. Such insights will ultimately prepare them with the skills they need, ensuring that they will have a solid financial future. Read more…
Posted on December 11, 2014 at by Teresa Te
When it comes to preventing or treating disease, stem cell research has led to major breakthroughs in the medical field. Parents who have young children can take advantage of cord blood banking, a type of stem cell technology that could effectively treat dozens of illnesses that may be acquired at any stage of life. Blood that is extracted from umbilical cords of pregnant women can be used as a legitimate source of stem cells.
When properly manipulated and activated, the blood cells could then differentiate into specific types of cells that would be typically be damaged by degenerative diseases. Decades after a baby is born, its umbilical blood can be utilized in treating neurological disorders such as Alzheimer’s Disease and Parkinson’s Disease. Cord blood cells are stored safely in laboratory environments that are precisely controlled in regards to temperature, humidity and other conditions. Read more…
Posted on December 9, 2014 at by Teresa Te
Especially around the holidays, marketing efforts are typically focused on getting the attention of youngsters. From a very young age, children naturally desire to shove current belongings to the side in hopes of getting the latest and greatest innovative gadgets and toys available. However, once children become old enough to recognize right from wrong, parents must instill a sense of value. This attribute involves appreciating what one has and taking care to see that possessions last. There are many different ways of introducing this time-honored virtue.
Similar to establishing any habit or converting short-term into long-term memory, children retain information and develop behaviors by repetition. Teaching value is no exception. Unless continually reminded, kids often let lessons slip by the wayside. Be consistent and in time, behaviors gradually evolve and become habit.
Lead by Example
Children often emulate the attitudes and behaviors of parents from a young age. If parents do not exhibit traits that include value of possessions, children are also not likely to display the characteristic, regardless of how many times they endure a lecture. Read more…
Posted on December 8, 2014 at by Teresa Te
Just because your kids are too old for a baby monitor in their room doesn’t mean you should stop monitoring their sleep habits. Sending them to bed at a “reasonable hour” does nothing to ensure they’re getting quality sleep (kind of like forcing yourself to go to bed at a certain time doesn’t mean you’re not awake in the dark for hours). Understanding proper sleep hygiene is the first step in helping your child enjoy a healthier life.
Check in on them throughout the night for tell tale signs of sleep issues such as early onset sleep apnea. In severe cases, a CPAP machine may be in order or there may be minor surgeries to help with nasal blockages. Of course, more likely you’ll just need to help them make some adjustments to better their sleep. Read more…
Posted on November 30, 2014 at by Teresa Te
With the holiday season coming up, we need to be aware of the dangers out there. As parents of young children planning a family holiday, this is especially true- but those of us with grown up children must also be vigilant. Traveling on one’s own, or with friends, is a wonderful experience for all young adults, and should be encouraged as often as possible- as long as the importance of smart travel is understood.
The Philippines, for instance, is an amazing country, dotted with beautiful beaches and exciting cities- but it’s also one that many travelers feel is unsafe, mostly due to reports of crimes and attacks on tourists. Recently making headlines, for example, was the violent rape of two Japanese tourists in Cebu City by South Korean men, in an act that brings to mind the mistreatment of the Japanese comfort women. The Koreans were charged with rape, as The Sunstar Cebu reports:
Rape complaints were filed Monday against two Korean nationals who allegedly raped two Japanese women last Saturday dawn, then left them to pay for the motel room bill. (Source)
The answer is not to avoid travel altogether, but to travel smart. Here are some tips to impart to your children.
- Stay in a wholesome location. Before booking a room at a hotel, motel, or inn, do a bit of research; read reviews on TripAdvisor, and find out how the location is.
- Know who to trust. Listen to your instincts; if someone seems shady, even if they’re supposed to be trustworthy- such as a worker at your hotel, or your driver- stay away.
- Have important numbers with you. A little notebook in your bag or pocket with a list of emergency numbers is a good idea in case you lose your mobile phone.
- Don’t get drunk. By all means, enjoy a few drinks at a local watering hole, but don’t get so drunk you lose control of yourself or your belongings. Not a wise thing to do in a foreign country.
Posted on October 28, 2014 at by Teresa Te
For many Americans, it’s just not possible to go without an income when there are children involved. Whether you really need two partner’s incomes to provide the best life for your family or you’re a single parent who needs the equivalent of a full-time income in order to give your children the life they deserve, there are options. You don’t necessarily have to have a nine to five setup in order to make ends more than meet. However, you do need some creativity.
There are many jobs and careers that are flexible enough to allow you to enjoy time with your children while still earning a respectable income. Here are a few ideas to get started. Depending on your skills, where you live and the amount of income necessary to thrive, some of these options may be better than others. It’s all about designing an income that works for you, too (and not just the other way around). Read more…
Posted on September 19, 2014 at by David
The one thing that can possibly be worse than underage drinking or taking drugs is underage DUI or driving under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Alcohol drinking or taking prohibited drugs can be very damaging to young people and adults alike. The risks doubles if drinking or taking drugs and driving is combined. These drivers eventually end up hurting themselves or others and destroying properties in the process. Either way, they would need to get the services of an excellent DUI defense lawyer to get them through their troubles. It is either that or they straighten themselves up before they get themselves into real trouble.
The Underage DUI Problem
Not a few parents have had to deal with the problem of underage drinking or teenagers taking prohibited drugs right in their own homes. The problem is real not only because it affects the whole family but also other people who may be in harm’s way when a DUI teenager is holding the wheel. But it is never easy to bring up the subject with anyone, more so with a teenage kid who may interpret parents’ concern as a veiled way of establishing excessive control. Never the less, parents have the responsibility to talk with their children because no one else will care more to do so. The law will care but in an all-together different dimension than that of parents thus all efforts must be exerted to prevent or stop the practice early on.
What Happens to Underage Caught DUI
Any person under the age of 21 caught driving under the influence of alcohol or combination or alcohol and drugs will have their licenses suspended or revoked immediately. This should effectively prevent the driver from legally operating a motor vehicle until such revocation or suspension is set aside. The services of a good lawyer is necessary if there were properties destroyed , people hurt, or lost lives. Such morbid results can haunt a young driver for the rest of his life.
Dealing with Underage DUI
It is primarily up to the parents to make sure that their children will not reach this point. Here are some ways parents can effectively deal with underage drinking or drug-taking to prevent the deadly consequences of driving under the influence.
1. Talk with the concerned child. Do it using clear words so that the message is understood. Do it with empathy that shows that you understand what the teen is going through.
2. Explain the possible results of being caught under the influence. There is no need to exaggerate since the reality of accidents is real enough. Be upfront without resorting to scare tactics.
3. Guide your child. Know when to have your presence felt and when to step back. Be encouraging and never condescending.
Posted on July 29, 2014 at by Teresa Martinez