Comments on: Having “The Talk” http://www.parenting-blog.net/tips/having-the-talk/ ...best job in the world Mon, 16 Jan 2012 17:28:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: C. Pease http://www.parenting-blog.net/tips/having-the-talk/comment-page-1/#comment-66834 C. Pease Mon, 05 Apr 2010 00:28:33 +0000 http://www.parenting-blog.net/news/having-the-talk/#comment-66834 I watched the Frontline movie, American Porn was an informational documentary regarding the social issue of the pornographic film industry in the United States. The American porn industry is the largest of its kind, and is more profitable than any other division of business in the world. In the 1970’s, porn was illegal and the justice system frequently prosecuted producers of such films. Most people being tried were being charged with obscenity and were sentenced to 15 plus years in prison. Most prosecutors would allow jury members to view clips of the pornographic videos, which at the time were very out of the ordinary, and deemed as not appropriate for the general adult public. Because of the content, it was very easy for prosecutors to get judgment against the accused. When the Clinton administration and his policy makers were elected into office, things changed in the industry. The justice system had bigger problems to tend to and prosecution of producers came to a halt. When the industry figured that repercussions no longer existed, the porn industry began booming once again. The business, although very lucrative, is easy money for most people. Unlike movies seen on the big screen where overhead was extremely high, the porn industry could essentially make a low budget film and reap the same rewards that movie producers were seeing. In the first year of opening, the family run porn business, Extreme Associates, grossed over two million dollars. In regards to society, a Catholic Bishop stated that, “When a company like AT&T gets into the hearts and lives of the American people, and then condone porn, they are telling our children that it’s OK.” Just as technology changes, so has the porn industry. Larry Flint, one of the biggest producers in the industry (Also one of the men who was convicted in the 1970’s for obscenity) stated that, “you can now see on television what was illegal in 1974 on private videos.” Like everything else, the industry continues to grow. When the republican party of George W. Bush came into office, the porn industry was worried. Prosecutors shifted their worries, and began coming after porn producers once again. More convictions were being seen until September 11 came. Again, policy changed and the government was more worried about national security. To help keep producers safe, a list has been made to remind porn producers what they should stay away from in regards to their content. This list is known as the Cambria List, and it recognizes 7 taboos that producers should keep out of their videos. Today, the justice system is still prosecuting, but only when a producer or actor takes the Cambria List too far. The seven general topics that will not be tolerated include; Fisting, underage, urination, bestiality, pain, death and dismemberment, and rape. With the porn industry growing, the question of adolescents gaining access to such material is an important one. While I believe viewing such material should not be illegal, the opportunities of children viewing the videos need to be monitored more closely. Furthermore, acts such as those on the Cambria List need to be prosecuted at the highest extent and should not be tolerated by either producer or viewer. It is important for young adults and teenagers to be aware of the meaning of sex and how it was meant to be partaken in. In videos such as those made by Extreme Associates where the woman is abused or raped, it is the responsibility of the public and the justice system to take action against such companies. It is not so much the content in each individual video, but instead the meaning behind it and what it teaches our children. The meaning of the woman’s body is being de-moralized and the meaning of the sexual acts are being weakened. Instilling the meaning of such actions into our youth is important, and, I believe, that if one understands the importance, the videos will be much less harmful. I watched the Frontline movie, American Porn was an informational documentary regarding the social issue of the pornographic film industry in the United States. The American porn industry is the largest of its kind, and is more profitable than any other division of business in the world.
In the 1970’s, porn was illegal and the justice system frequently prosecuted producers of such films. Most people being tried were being charged with obscenity and were sentenced to 15 plus years in prison. Most prosecutors would allow jury members to view clips of the pornographic videos, which at the time were very out of the ordinary, and deemed as not appropriate for the general adult public. Because of the content, it was very easy for prosecutors to get judgment against the accused.
When the Clinton administration and his policy makers were elected into office, things changed in the industry. The justice system had bigger problems to tend to and prosecution of producers came to a halt. When the industry figured that repercussions no longer existed, the porn industry began booming once again.
The business, although very lucrative, is easy money for most people. Unlike movies seen on the big screen where overhead was extremely high, the porn industry could essentially make a low budget film and reap the same rewards that movie producers were seeing. In the first year of opening, the family run porn business, Extreme Associates, grossed over two million dollars.
In regards to society, a Catholic Bishop stated that, “When a company like AT&T gets into the hearts and lives of the American people, and then condone porn, they are telling our children that it’s OK.” Just as technology changes, so has the porn industry. Larry Flint, one of the biggest producers in the industry (Also one of the men who was convicted in the 1970’s for obscenity) stated that, “you can now see on television what was illegal in 1974 on private videos.” Like everything else, the industry continues to grow.
When the republican party of George W. Bush came into office, the porn industry was worried. Prosecutors shifted their worries, and began coming after porn producers once again. More convictions were being seen until September 11 came. Again, policy changed and the government was more worried about national security.
To help keep producers safe, a list has been made to remind porn producers what they should stay away from in regards to their content. This list is known as the Cambria List, and it recognizes 7 taboos that producers should keep out of their videos.
Today, the justice system is still prosecuting, but only when a producer or actor takes the Cambria List too far. The seven general topics that will not be tolerated include; Fisting, underage, urination, bestiality, pain, death and dismemberment, and rape.
With the porn industry growing, the question of adolescents gaining access to such material is an important one. While I believe viewing such material should not be illegal, the opportunities of children viewing the videos need to be monitored more closely. Furthermore, acts such as those on the Cambria List need to be prosecuted at the highest extent and should not be tolerated by either producer or viewer.
It is important for young adults and teenagers to be aware of the meaning of sex and how it was meant to be partaken in. In videos such as those made by Extreme Associates where the woman is abused or raped, it is the responsibility of the public and the justice system to take action against such companies. It is not so much the content in each individual video, but instead the meaning behind it and what it teaches our children. The meaning of the woman’s body is being de-moralized and the meaning of the sexual acts are being weakened. Instilling the meaning of such actions into our youth is important, and, I believe, that if one understands the importance, the videos will be much less harmful.

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